It is possible to enjoy marriage in a very happy life-long monogamous relationship, and the secret is in adequate preparation and premarital counseling. Behavioural experts believe that most problems faced by couples in their marriages are a direct result of poor premarital preparation or none at all and yet marriage is a lifelong adventure. The Reverend Sam Ruteikara gives practical wisdom on the marriage institution based on Holy Scriptures and tradition for anyone intending to marry, laying emphasis on thorough preparation, and for even those already married to rekindle the fire in their marriage life, love and friendship because marriage is very important in any person’s life. He gives vital advice to the counselor who must do both premarital and post-nuptial counsellng. The essential topics such as communication, faithfulness, sexuality, and parenting are explained in detail using simple and understandable language. Sexually transmitted infections (STI) including HIV and AIDS and violence as dangers to safe marriage are highlighted with insights for prevention. Prostate gland cancer common to men aged fifty years and beyond is included as a warning and precaution measure.